You can't take care of someone who doesn't care about you

Zeul told me: "Trow away the ungrateful bastards and bitches - and in absence of a real "lover", become a lover to yourself".
By the way, the thing you call "love", isn't love at all. Somebody seduced you, bewitched you, hypnotized you and took control over your heart (or more precisely your brain), sometimes with a purpose (just for sex or using your favours and services), sometimes without realizing it they put a spell on you and then maybe left you bleeding, being afraid of what was done.
Love is inside of you - the object doesn't matter. Often you "fall in love" with someone (anyone!!!) because you convinced yourself "I am in love" through self-hypnotic suggestion. It's a terrible waste of time and energy and some part of you knows that it will pass, like all your previous "crushes". Remember you first "passions"? Where are they now? In which garbage bag of your memory? These people mean nothing to you now, but totally occupied your mind at the time. It's all in the brain. "Out of sight - out of mind". Take a deep breath and say "It's over - I have to move on with my life, maybe there were some nice moments, but now it's over". You tried your best - it didn't work. Maybe it is even your own mistake, maybe you have a so called "bad character". It doesn't matter. Do not ever humiliate yourself.

You can't take care of someone who doesn't care about you.

It is strictly forbidden and considered to be a sin on our planet. So redirect this feeling to yourself: - buy yourself nice presents (flowers ?), give good care to your body, take aromatic bath, clean your place, read a book, watch a movie or do something creative - paint, make music, meet other people, entertain yourself, enjoy your own company (it's a best company anyway), cook delicious meals, do to yourself anything you would do to one you passionately "love". Get rid of the spell cast upon you or by yourself. You can be sexy and attractive in any (I mean it) age and in any social condition (having money or material attractions or not). Wait - and when you are ready, new "lovers" will come like a metal to magnet, because you will project such a happiness and calm - they will smell the nice food you cook for yourself and your new nice aftershave or perfume..."

Dr.Key Real and Zeul
Open your mind, and as you, humans, often say: "there are plenty more fish in the sea" or we say "there are plenty of stars in Space" ;).